Are Baby Hiccups Normal? A Midwife’s Answers

This is probably one of the most common questions I get from parents. There is hardly a day when I visit a family and someone does not ask, “Why does my baby keep hiccupping?” It does not matter if their baby is a few days or a few weeks old; hiccups are something every parent […]
The Truth About the First 24 Hours With Your Newborn

The first 24 hours after your baby’s arrival are a whirlwind of emotions, hormones, and learning curves. Many parents imagine an instant picture-perfect moment, but in reality, this day is full of natural adjustments for both you and your newborn. Knowing what to expect helps you feel more confident, calm, and prepared for this incredible […]
Never Shake a Baby: Protecting Your Little One from Harm

N= Never, ever shake a baby The Most Vital Step of ICON The final and most crucial message of ICON is clear: never shake a baby. Even a few seconds of shaking can cause devastating harm. Babies have weak neck muscles and fragile brains. A violent shake can make the brain move inside the skull, […]
Overwhelmed by Crying? It’s OK to Walk Away

O = It’s OK to Walk Away Reassurance Parents Need This is the part of ICON that parents often need the most reassurance about. When I say “it is OK to walk away” I can see the relief in their faces. Parents often carry guilt for even wanting a moment of peace. But this step […]
Comforting a Crying Baby: Proven Soothing Methods That Can Help

C= Comforting methods can help Comforting Does Not Mean Perfection When parents hear “comforting methods can help” they often think it means there is always a perfect solution. The truth is sometimes there is and sometimes there is not. But it is worth learning and trying different methods, because often one of them will make […]
Why Babies Cry So Much and Why It’s Completely Normal

I = Infant Crying Is Normal As a midwife one of the first things I tell new parents is this: crying is normal. It may sound obvious, but when you are holding a screaming baby for the third night in a row it does not feel normal at all. It feels endless, stressful, and sometimes […]
ICON in Focus: Protecting Babies from Shaken Baby Syndrome
It’s ICON Week This week is ICON Week, so each day we will take a closer look at what ICON means, why it matters, and how it can support parents and protect babies. Today we begin by exploring ICON in general before diving into each step throughout the week. A personal note from […]
The Dark Side of Postpartum That No One Talks About

Becoming a parent is often painted as a joyful time filled with cuddles, tiny fingers, and endless love. But for many new mums, the reality is far more complicated. Postnatal depression (PND) affects 1 in 10 women in the UK and can leave parents feeling overwhelmed, isolated, and guilty for not enjoying what is “supposed” […]
Pram Packing secrets: What To Pack In The Pram
When you’re heading out with your baby, knowing how to pack your pram the right way can make all the difference, especially when it comes to preventing overheating. Whether it’s a brisk autumn walk or a sunny September afternoon, babies can quickly get too hot in their prams, and often we don’t even realise it. […]
The Hidden Reasons Your Baby Won’t Sleep (And the Powerful Fixes That Work)

Sleep deprivation is one of the biggest shocks for new parents. You have just welcomed your beautiful baby, and instead of glowing with joy, you are stumbling around like a zombie, wondering if you will ever sleep again. If your newborn is waking up constantly, refusing naps, or seems restless at night, you are not […]